可以後生,只是我想裝”老”?

朋友,對我說過我可以後生,只是我想裝”老”。他認為我也可以好像以前一樣的。沒錯,我可以好像以前一樣,如果我選擇永遠都是一個廿歲的”男孩”。我選擇了”從俗”,在社會中, 一個廿八歲的人有廿八歲要幹的事。在工作,我永遠不可以表達是一個”新人”的。對家人,我責任也是不可以逃避。廿八歲始終都是廿八歲。

I can’t make it, sorry.

My friend said, ” You can’t make it , this is not because of no time, that is because you don’t want. Even you have not time, if you want , you can arrange that.”

He is so young and free. I am old, I can’t do things without considering other committments. The young guys always think we are lazy and sitting in our comfort zone. We have spent a lot of effort to get our job done.  We have to protect the things we have at this moment. Moreover, I don’t think I have to deal with the problems at this moment. I don’t need to fright and confront with those guys. They don’t take care about themselves. They do the things without considering cost.  I am not.

Miss my holidays

Now is 8.30pm Sunday. That is near the end of my four days holidays. Tomorrow, I need to go to work again.

Well, during these four days, I had a lot of sleeping hours, yeah, then that ‘s alright.

A first day off

I took two days off. This is the first day off. But that is busier than my normal working. In this morning, The guys installed A/C. Afternoon, I had hair cut and then I dropped my car for new tyres. I did two hours gym. My night watch a DVD by myself.

that is so call a day off.

P.S. my Mitsubshi A/C is better than others brands in my house.

夫妻如衣服

今日,與人家談及某遠親的事,外婆說他待自己的妻子比其他同姓親人好。當然,是的。也許,因我在教會生活多年。聖經說:兩人成一體。妻子是我的身體另一半。但在上輩的觀念中,”夫妻如衣服”。太太是外姓人,有事是會離開的。我記起外婆常常要小心識女仔,她們會騙了我的”身家”。同姓的就是自己人,有事是大家一起去受的。所以有”兄弟如手足,夫妻如衣服”的一句話。
現代社會是不同的,我們已經沒有了是什麼同姓兄弟。社會是由小家庭組成的。夫妻都是小家庭的核心。夫妻之間就是我最親的人。婚姻不再是以前的盲婚啞嫁,是一種變相的交易。現在婚姻是一種承諾。大家是選擇的。基督徒而言,更是一生的責任。夫妻不再可以如衣服,愛穿就這件,不愛就換另一件的。我不待她好,應該待誰好?!

Stamford

Stamford is a town 4 hours driving distance north-west from brisbane.
I have been there twice. The scene is so great and looks like a painting.
-This photo is taken by Julia.
Thanks!